Or are you indifferent and you only seeing him just because he is your boyfriend? Once you sort this issue out in your mind, you will have a clear picture in your mind. Love is all about the flutters in your stomach and happiness when you see his face. This might be a foolish thing to reconsider, but think about how much you are actually thinking of him. Do you remember him only when he sends you a text message or calls you, or is the 90 percent of your daily conscious thinking devoted to him?
If the last one is true, than you are definitely in the love lane. Enjoy the springtime, because springtime is in the love lane is the best season ever.
If you really like or love someone, you will forget about the pride, and text them or call them first. This is a sign of thinking more about him and less about yourself, which is a definite indicator of being in love. Once you love someone, you will constantly find ways to talk about them, because he preoccupies your mind and makes sure everyone knows about it. When you really love someone, you want him to feel good and be happy.
You even sacrifice your well-being to make them feel nice. This is how love affects people. One of the definite signs of love is being there for him when he has a rough time.
Or if your relationship is on the down slope, you are still positive and working it out. If I had, perhaps we wouldn't be talking with each other again today. If I had, perhaps I would never have had my heart broken, and I now believe everyone needs a broken heart just once in their life. We met in the 6th grade. We are both 22 now. It seems like forever. So, yeah, I have loved somebody like that. I loved them and never told them, big mistake. But if I loved him enough, I would've told him.
He's now happily married with two kids and we're good friends. So I guess it wasn't a mistake! If you really love her, then take a chance and tell her. At least you tried instead of always thinking "what if?
The outcome is a choice of 3: you tell her, she feels only friendship you are crushed Love blooms, friendship lasts. As mhowe so rightly noted, there's only three things that can happen. That said, I would beg to differ as to the "statistical" consequences. Given that you consider her your friend, you ought to be able to tell her, regardless whether she feels the same for you.
Nevertheless, I would suggest to choose your words wisely when you do tell her and note how much you value the friendship and that you do not want to risk losing her as a friend. If she really is your friend, she will understand and remain your friend, regardless whether she feels the same for you that you feel for her.
If not, then the friendship was probably not as strong as you imagined in the first place and you will not be losing much anyhow. So, as far as I see it, if you really do consider her a friend, you have nothing to lose, but a lot to win Mother trying to cope with son's death.
Photo Previous Pause Next. Both boys drowned in the nearby sea on Monday. But Ferguson would later get a telephone call that any mother would dread. Other News Stories. Beenie Man not in custody. Policeman charged for breaches of the firearms act sentenced. Firearm and ammunition seized in Seaview Gardens. Ask for help! Top agony aunts. About Us. Sitemap I never told him I loved him, now I've lost him. So about 3 years ago, this guy who's younger than me by 2 yrs moved in right next door.
Since the first day we met, we became great friends. Since the past year we got a bit closer 2 each other and some of our friends would ask if we were going out. I did like him a lot, but I just didnt really understand my feelings and always covered it up by goin, 'ya right.To have not told him I loved him (69 Posts) Add message | Report. never going to see him again, never going to hear his voice. Apparently he left a letter for me before he was away last year but I told his best friend I wasn't sure i wanted to read it, I can't even think straight atm, all I want is him back and to tell him what I was always.